San Diego County — December 2025: Retaliation Escalates Again
RFA calls again — apparently they’ve detected life on Mars
RFA-approved or not — I’m still their grandfather. The County can put my certification on hold, but they can’t revoke blood.
RENTLESS
FAMILY
ASSAULTS
Stranger Danger Protected — Family Punished — Children Destroyed
RETALIATORY FRAUD AGENCY
THE COLLECTIVE STATEMENT
A MESSAGE FROM THE GRANDFATHER TO RFA & THE DEPARTMENT OF CHILD AND FAMILY WELL-BEING
The Collective has received the following message from the grandfather regarding ongoing harassment by San Diego’s RFA division and the Department of Child and Family Well-Being.
In the interest of transparency and public record, we are publishing his statement exactly as it was submitted.
A MESSAGE FROM THE GRANDFATHER
RFA Harassment: Round Five
What’s Next — “Martians in the Living Room”?
Let’s lay out the timeline exactly as he reported it:
November 13 — Harassment Call #1
RFA called him, alleging a vague “violation.”
No details, no documentation — just pressure to show up in their office.
November 24 — Harassment Call #2
Voicemail.
Still no written allegation.
Still refusing to provide specifics — because lies fall apart when put on paper.
December 1 — Harassment Letter
Finally, something in writing.
But it was absurd:
A “temporary hold” based on the claim there were “children in his home.”
There were none.
He refuted it in writing immediately.
Radio silence from the County.
December 10 — Harassment Call #3
Now the story changes again.
Suddenly there are “allegations” (plural), still with no details, no dates, no documentation.
And again, they left a voicemail scheduling an appointment he never agreed to.
December 11 — Harassment Call #4
Another call from the same RFA worker — the fourth phone contact instead of providing anything in writing. A brief voicemail. Still no written notice. Still no details, no dates, no explanation of the supposed “allegations.” Just another request to come into their office, despite his clear requirement that all communication be provided in writing. The County continues to avoid paper because paper creates accountability.
So the grandfather asks the County a serious question:
If there were no children in his home last month, and there are no children in his home today, what exactly do you think is in his house now? More imaginary children? Or have you upgraded the fantasy and decided there are Martians in the living room?
Because these shifting accusations aren’t just sloppy — they’re unhinged. This is not oversight. This is retaliation.
When an RFA-approved grandfather with a clean record receives:
Ever-changing stories
Phantom allegations
Office ambush attempts
Vague accusations that mutate every few weeks that is not legitimate oversight. That is harassment, retaliation, and institutional intimidation.
RFA refuses to put specifics in writing because writing creates accountability.
And while RFA is busy inventing imaginary “violations” they continue ignoring the real, documented danger: Norma Olivares.
The grandfather has repeatedly reported — and the County has repeatedly ignored — the following:
Norma Olivares’ fabricated allegations.
Her documented sabotage of reunification.
The children’s injuries and trauma under her supervision.
Her efforts to sever the children’s bond with their parents and paternal family.
The fact that the children are now in transitional therapy, which proves they were harmed in County-approved placement, not in their family’s care.
Her pattern of making retaliatory false reports to manipulate the system and block family placement.
RFA knows this. CWS knows this. The Department knows this.
Yet they investigate none of it — because the fraudster is protected, while the innocent grandfather is targeted.
The Collective stands with the grandfather.
We are documenting every incident. We will continue publishing every retaliatory act by RFA, CWS, and the Department of Child and Family Well-Being until the harassment stops — and until the Malaika and Xayah are returned to their lawful, loving family.
More to come.
— The Collective for Family Justice & Human Rights
You owe RFA NOTHING. Not a call. Not a meeting. Not a drive across the county. NOTHING. They have NEVER honored you as an RFA. They have NEVER used your home. They have NEVER placed the girls with you. They have NEVER given you relative preference. They have NEVER respected the blood line. They have NEVER given you 1 hour in your own house with your own grandchildren. Meanwhile Norma Olivares — no blood, no history, no connection — gets EVERYTHING: full-time control, daycare drop-offs, secret therapy, toddler interrogations, access to CPS staff, influence over visitation, fraudulent allegations used to destroy reunification. And YOU, a vetted, approved, cleared, background-checked paternal grandfather? Not even allowed to have the babies step foot inside your house. That is not “RFA protocol.” That is retaliation and control.
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